Egoistical
I don't know why lately I often think, talk and take some conclusions based on my observation about what human emotion is really like. Or lets say it, I just started exploring about how self-centris/ egocentrism of human being works. Probably because some of my friends told me about their experiences of feelings and emotions, also some problems they are facing with nowadays. And I've been trying to be a good listener and giving such worth and best advices to them so they might feel better.
Well sometimes, I feel like I'm able or fit to be a psychologist, lol.
The thing is, Aristotle said, each person is a "Zoon Politicon", means that mankind is a social being, who can't live alone without the others and need help from the others. That's true. Like, have you ever imagined
living in this world just alone and how would it be? I can definitely describe that in one word. Worst.
But have you ever thought before, how if the people who are used being around you in almost every section of your life, are leaving? They are no longer be with you going through life, or helping you to solve many kinds of problem, pass the hard time or even the deepest darkness. Whether it's their fault? for not always standing beside you? Should you blame them for not always being around? or judge them as fake friends or betrayers?
Listen, somehow you have to admit that people come and go and that's how life goes on. Accept that. You can't force or ask or beg people to always stay in your life. It's an ego. Even they are your closest ones; you parents, your brothers/sisters, your boy/girl friend, your husband, your wife..They wouldn't last forever. They will only exist in some parts of your life. When it comes to the time when they are gone, for any kind of reason,
Whether you let yourself feeling down, messed up, then giving up? or whether you will regret the life that you have?
Eventually, every man must return to each self, we must take responsibility for our own selves, and have to bear the burden of our own. Each person should be able to live independently, carry his/her own thing and be able to control the course of his/her life and make it well. Whatever happens, life must go on. You must learn to be a strong person who can stand alone. And when you are having some problems, as what you have sowed, they must be borned by yourself. You can not force other people to feel even let them bear what is yours. that's life. Do not be too dependent on others, do not blame others for not being around when you need them. We are living in our own lives.
However, I believe that God always there, people walk away but He would never. He always stays and helps.
Well sometimes, I feel like I'm able or fit to be a psychologist, lol.
The thing is, Aristotle said, each person is a "Zoon Politicon", means that mankind is a social being, who can't live alone without the others and need help from the others. That's true. Like, have you ever imagined
living in this world just alone and how would it be? I can definitely describe that in one word. Worst.
But have you ever thought before, how if the people who are used being around you in almost every section of your life, are leaving? They are no longer be with you going through life, or helping you to solve many kinds of problem, pass the hard time or even the deepest darkness. Whether it's their fault? for not always standing beside you? Should you blame them for not always being around? or judge them as fake friends or betrayers?
Listen, somehow you have to admit that people come and go and that's how life goes on. Accept that. You can't force or ask or beg people to always stay in your life. It's an ego. Even they are your closest ones; you parents, your brothers/sisters, your boy/girl friend, your husband, your wife..They wouldn't last forever. They will only exist in some parts of your life. When it comes to the time when they are gone, for any kind of reason,
Whether you let yourself feeling down, messed up, then giving up? or whether you will regret the life that you have?
Eventually, every man must return to each self, we must take responsibility for our own selves, and have to bear the burden of our own. Each person should be able to live independently, carry his/her own thing and be able to control the course of his/her life and make it well. Whatever happens, life must go on. You must learn to be a strong person who can stand alone. And when you are having some problems, as what you have sowed, they must be borned by yourself. You can not force other people to feel even let them bear what is yours. that's life. Do not be too dependent on others, do not blame others for not being around when you need them. We are living in our own lives.
However, I believe that God always there, people walk away but He would never. He always stays and helps.
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